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Post by Guest on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 7:18

This is a random-random question...

lets talk about love, shall we?



How has your opposite sex partner influence your life?





In my case, she has driven me out of my hiki-state for God-knows-how-long and eventually stop me entirely from watching porn ever again...or else she'll leave me

What do I feel about it?
I feel twice much-much better than my old self.

How do you met?

classified (I've told some...selects)

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Post by tsundere9kagami2 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 8:55

she maka me feel the happys

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Post by Triela on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 15:02

It's cool that you guys have relationships. ^_^ Me, well... I've never even had my first kiss, nor have I ever been on a date. *sigh* The price I pay for being shy. I can't ever talk to cute guys I see. ;_;

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Post by LoC978 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 15:59

there are two men in media who say it best, I think:



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Post by Triela on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 16:03

Ahaha! Scrubs is awesome!! XD

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Post by LoC978 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 16:13

encore? encore.

also quite on topic, if ya pay attention.

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Post by TTIO on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 16:35

Triela wrote:It's cool that you guys have relationships. ^_^ Me, well... I've never even had my first kiss, nor have I ever been on a date. *sigh*


Same for me, 'cept thats 'cos I'd rather wait. I don't want to get into pointless relationships that will, inevitably, lead nowhere. So, I'll wait until I've finished school and then uni Wink

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Post by Triela on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 16:50

TTIO wrote:
Triela wrote:It's cool that you guys have relationships. ^_^ Me, well... I've never even had my first kiss, nor have I ever been on a date. *sigh*


Same for me, 'cept thats 'cos I'd rather wait. I don't want to get into pointless relationships that will, inevitably, lead nowhere. So, I'll wait until I've finished school and then uni Wink

Well yeah same with me. Since I'm only 17 I see being in a relationship with someone is pointless. There are other things I want more in my life right now and having a boyfriend would consume a lot of my time. I can't afford to have a boyfriend either my art work, friends, and even things like playing video games are more important to me right now. Besides, even if I wanted a boyfriend no one would be interested in me.

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Post by LoC978 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 17:02

Triela wrote:Besides, even if I wanted a boyfriend no one would be interested in me.
...and that's where you're wrong. There will be guys who show interest. Probably quite soon.
Just keep one thing in mind. 90% of 'em (possibly more) will only want one thing... they'll lie, manipulate, cheat and steal to try to get it. Keep in mind that thing that Dr. Cox said about 'feeling a little down about yourself' in that last vid I posted. 'tis an age-old male tactic. I've used it more than once myself...


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Post by Danjo3 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 17:06

Me and my significant other have kind of been getting on each others nerves lately. Weve broken up and gotten back together twice already, and Ive decided if we split again, itll be for good. But well see.

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Post by TTIO on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 17:09

Triela wrote:Well yeah same with me. Since I'm only 17 I see being in a relationship with someone is pointless. There are other things I want more in my life right now and having a boyfriend would consume a lot of my time. I can't afford to have a boyfriend either my art work, friends, and even things like playing video games are more important to me right now. Besides, even if I wanted a boyfriend no one would be interested in me.


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But seriously, I agree with Loc here. People will show interest, sooner or later. Don't beat yourself up about it Wink

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Post by tsundere9kagami2 on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 17:57

17 in 6 days cheers

as for pointless relationships its been fun just dont get her pregnant or your future is screwed

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Post by Kiskaloo on Wed 4 Feb 2009 - 23:26

tsundere9kagami2 wrote:as for pointless relationships its been fun just dont get her pregnant or your future is screwed

But don't you know?


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Post by Sintendo on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 2:56

Of the ... *counts on fingers*... yeah, of the 3 girlfriends I've had, all 3 of them are my best friends, even to this day... just minus the kissing... and the sex...

Anyways, being in a relationship, while not very important, is one of the most rewarding experiences in life (ONE of them...). While there can be rough times, the good times always outshine them... and if you've been having a bad time with your significant other for more than 3 months... it's time to get-a-movin'.

Neighbor lady is a nice girl, but she and I don't feel like we're at a stage where we can claim each other as boyfriend or girlfriend... to be blunt, we're "fuck buddies". BUT, that doesn't rule out anything for the future. We've both got school in the way (the very thing that ended my last two relationships) so we don't want to rush anything yet.

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On the other spectrum of things: Breaking up will feel like the end of the world to you, even if you were the one who wanted the relationship to end. It's terrible when you tell a person you don't love them anymore... but the sun will always rise, and you'll eventually get back up.
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Post by tsundere9kagami2 on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 10:53

no reason for the condom he just likes to make them dance

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Post by LoC978 on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 12:34

can't be too careful.
serious. Pills, IUD, what have you, I still wrap it up.
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Post by Kiskaloo on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 12:54

Coupling (the UK version, of course), did it better...

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Post by Sintendo on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 15:00

@ LoC: Guh?
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Post by LoC978 on Thu 5 Feb 2009 - 15:20

Puzzled
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might have something to do with the difference in who we go for. I'm a little like this guy:

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Post by destroyer on Sat 7 Feb 2009 - 0:42

i never have one, so don't know how she'll affect me.

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Post by Guest on Sat 7 Feb 2009 - 3:19

Anyways, being in a relationship, while not very important, is one of the most rewarding experiences in life (ONE of them...).

I couldn't agree more on this Very Happy

There's this sense of belonging that sticks with you whenever you spend time with someone you care for. An attachment, so to speak, but more correctly the feeling of being wanted and/or needed. ^^

as for pointless relationships its been fun just dont get her pregnant or your future is screwed

Easy. Just don't have sex unless you're married.

90% of 'em (possibly more) will only want one thing...
they'll lie, manipulate, cheat and steal to try to get it. Keep in mind
that thing that Dr. Cox said about 'feeling a little down about
yourself' in that last vid I posted. 'tis an age-old male tactic

...and that 90% of them are those you wish to avoid. Good guys are hard to find, so if you find one don't let them go! ^_^


OK, I've explained how I met mine...how do you guys met yours? Or how you wish you met yours :p

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Post by Nachtsider on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 1:23

My wife and I knew each other but passingly when we were young children. I was sixteen and she was fourteen when we struck up a proper friendship. The chemistry was instantaneous - she and I shared the same likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams, and complimented each other perfectly (still do).

I have never found a more loyal, virtuous or devoted companion, and definitely never will; the same applies to me in her eyes. Numerous demons of the past had haunted us prior to our bond being forged; the progressing of our friendship saw these unwelcome phantoms exorcized for good.

We were in love in a little under two years, and, despite all efforts from various petty, prejudiced and downright nasty parties to seperate us, stuck together like glue, and were married as soon as she turned legal. The ecstatic life we have since led together has blessed us with two wonderful children, and we blissfully look forward to the golden tomorrows that this existence will deliver.

All has never been better with the world.

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Post by Sintendo on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 2:35

That reminds me, Nacht, how old are your kids?
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Post by Nachtsider on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 3:56

My son will be four this October, and my daughter three this June.

You know, Sin, I coulda sworn I told you their ages before... Puzzled

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Post by Danjo3 on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 9:37

Just kind of curious Nacht, what kind of marriage ceremony did you have?

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Post by Nachtsider on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 10:00

We went to the registry office and nothing more. To us, commitment outweighs ceremony.

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Post by Sintendo on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 11:50

Nope... all I knew was that you had two kids. Lol, I always assumed they were both boys.
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Post by Danjo3 on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 16:08

Nachtsider wrote:We went to the registry office and nothing more. To us, commitment outweighs ceremony.
Cool. Sounds like you hit the jackpot on the first try. Congrats!

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Post by Nachtsider on Mon 9 Feb 2009 - 21:39

Danjo - thanks!

Sin - hmm. Musta been my mistake, then. S'cool.

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Post by Tommygunner70 on Tue 10 Feb 2009 - 0:00

Nachtsider wrote:My son will be four this October, and my daughter three this June.

You know, Sin, I coulda sworn I told you their ages before... Puzzled

Thats new info to me too. You told me you had kids, but you never told gender or age.

Nachtsider wrote:We went to the registry office and nothing more. To us, commitment outweighs ceremony.

Very true.

The only photo I have of my wife, is the one of our wedding ceremony in Japan.

As you well know, Sora hates having her picture taken. then again, I dont need a photo to love her, the genuine article is all I need.
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Post by Sintendo on Tue 10 Feb 2009 - 0:52

Tommygunner70 wrote:

As you well know, Sora hates having her picture taken.

lol, I can relate.

I'm like the fucking anti-picture ninja, man. Every time somebody whips out a Camera, I head for the hills.

They're going to take my soul, man! MY SOOOOOOOOOOUL


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Post by Guest on Tue 10 Feb 2009 - 9:11

We went to the registry office and nothing more.

That's how marriage goes in the west? O_o

So...no news to parents or such? Just to the registry office and say 'we're married'?

Remind me to return back home when I'm planning to get married :p

They're going to take my soul, man! MY SOOOOOOOOOOUL
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Aaanyway, I knew you have two kids but never thought of them as a brother and a sister. I kinda' have the idea of two daughters instead...

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Post by Nachtsider on Tue 10 Feb 2009 - 10:18

Actually, anybody anywhere in the world can opt for what my wife and I did. You don't necessarily have to hold a ceremony to be wed - the legal requirement (liscence, etc) is all that's truly compulsary. And we're from the East, not the West.

My mother's dead ten-plus years and I haven't seen anything of my father since he remarried and left. My wife's parents did not approve of our friendship, and they've pretty much disowned her since she moved in with me. Don't pity us, though - our relationships with our parents were not what you could call healthy. And don't go thinking it was our fault that the parent-child bonds ended up that way, either. But it's a long and sordid story, and may not be worth telling here.

And naw, no pics of the kiddies. Not just yet, anyway. Wink

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Post by destroyer on Wed 11 Feb 2009 - 7:56

no worries. Love can conquer all........ what kind of quote is that? lol.

but that's lucky for you. Well, i hope that you can cope with both of your parent sooner or later. No pity, because you're happy. what should be pity from another people happiness?

Parent child bonds never end, so just wait for the right time. lol. and because you experience it in a 'not so good' way, you'll surely be able to prevent the same thing happen to your child.
i'm praying for your success in raising them good.

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Post by Cherubino on Sun 15 Feb 2009 - 18:01

Wow. So many of you guys are married already. And you're all fairly young. Thats interesting. I've only met one couple who is my age and engaged. I don't think they're gonna follow through but that's just because they're rabbits xD.

Anyway, I am one of those people who has had relationships but the well seems to be dry lately. I haven't found a good man in a LONG time. And honestly, you're all men here, what's up with that?

I mean you all hardly know me but, tell me, what turns a man away from a gal huh? Be a pal. Tell you're little Cherubino Wink

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Post by LoC978 on Sun 15 Feb 2009 - 18:55

no two men, just like no two women, are exactly alike.
what turns one man away from you may attract another.

but in general, according to stereotypes and minor hormonal predispositions...
excessive talk about vague emotions, wanting to rush into a commitment without actually getting to know each other, obsessing over clothing, not allowing him to have any alone time (or, alternately, time with old friends)... and generally attempting to control or change him.

As Albert Einstein once said:
Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.
-not that there aren't exceptions to the rule... they're just rare.

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Post by tsundere9kagami2 on Sun 15 Feb 2009 - 20:15

Cherubino wrote:
I mean you all hardly know me but, tell me, what turns a man away from a gal huh? Be a pal. Tell you're little Cherubino Wink

13 years old........ just whistlin'

........really its all in their head and its personal preference

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Post by Sintendo on Sun 15 Feb 2009 - 22:19

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Post by LoC978 on Sun 15 Feb 2009 - 22:34

while you're at it...



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which begins: "So the other day I was talking about boobies with some associates of mine."

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Re: Partner in life

Post by Cherubino on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 0:27

LoC978 wrote:no two men, just like no two women, are exactly alike.
what turns one man away from you may attract another.

but in general, according to stereotypes and minor hormonal predispositions...
excessive talk about vague emotions, wanting to rush into a commitment without actually getting to know each other, obsessing over clothing, not allowing him to have any alone time (or, alternately, time with old friends)... and generally attempting to control or change him.

As Albert Einstein once said:
Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.
-not that there aren't exceptions to the rule... they're just rare.
But stereotypically, what turns a man away from the other type of girl. The loose girl who is not into changing him or into serious stuff? Why do they avoid girls like that? (Again I know that everyone's different. I'm just wondering.)

I also have another query about siblings and their reactions to relationships.
It is a well known fact that almost every dude in High School wants to screw every gal he meets. Now knowing that these guys do anything to sleep with these girls, exploit them then leave them, why is it that when they're sisters become high school age they suddenly get defensive of their sisters? And why do they take it out on their sisters by threatening their boyfriends? How can they, with clear conscience, continue to do this to other girls knowing that other guys are doing that to their sister? Don't they stop and think about it now that it is happening to their sister? bang head

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Post by Kiskaloo on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 0:34

Well I was either on the other side of the country or the Pacific when my sisters were in high school, so I didn't terrorize their boyfriends.

On the plus side, they both ended up marrying great guys, so maybe that was a good thing...

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Post by LoC978 on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 0:50

What turns men away from loose women? Social programming (the sex=evil religious thing), STD scares, co-dependence (guys who are convinced they'll find 'the one' if they keep lookin'... that's a big one, and another form of social programming), the stigma of being seen as a whoremonger... I'm sure there are more reasons.

As for high school guys protecting little sisters... it kinda reminds me of a guy I worked with in Germany. He was married at age 19, but he couldn't be bothered to do the paperwork for command sponsorship to bring his wife over... so he started sleeping with a war widow.
When I asked him what his wife would think, he just said "Nobody better fuckin' tell her. I'll kill 'im." When I asked what's stopping his wife from doing the same thing: "She better not, I'd fuckin' kill her."
In short, ego and hypocrisy. Not every man possesses them to that degree, but we're all egotistical hypocrites in one way or another... or several ways...

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Post by Cherubino on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 1:15

LoC978 wrote:What turns men away from loose women? Social programming (the sex=evil religious thing), STD scares, co-dependence (guys who are convinced they'll find 'the one' if they keep lookin'... that's a big one, and another form of social programming), the stigma of being seen as a whoremonger... I'm sure there are more reasons.

As for high school guys protecting little sisters... it kinda reminds me of a guy I worked with in Germany. He was married at age 19, but he couldn't be bothered to do the paperwork for command sponsorship to bring his wife over... so he started sleeping with a war widow.
When I asked him what his wife would think, he just said "Nobody better fuckin' tell her. I'll kill 'im." When I asked what's stopping his wife from doing the same thing: "She better not, I'd fuckin' kill her."
In short, ego and hypocrisy. Not every man possesses them to that degree, but we're all egotistical hypocrites in one way or another... or several ways...
Hmm... I suppose your right. Be either way no one wins. I don't understand why people are so inward about their emotions. I am a forward kinda gal. I know that turns guys away from me. I often tell guys how I feel about them. I think guys expect girls to be secretive and shy about their true feelings...

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Post by LoC978 on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 1:21

I prefer honesty (brutal honesty is my style), though I'm definitely in the minority on that one.

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Re: Partner in life

Post by Nachtsider on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 1:23

You're not alone, LoC.

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Re: Partner in life

Post by Cherubino on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 1:26

*sigh* I normally am reprimanded for my blunt nature. Who wants to hear lies when they know the truth?

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Re: Partner in life

Post by Kiskaloo on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 1:32

LoC978 wrote:I prefer honesty (brutal honesty is my style), though I'm definitely in the minority on that one.

Maybe not brutal honesty, but honesty to be sure. I'm honest with them, so I would like to be treated the same in return.

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Re: Partner in life

Post by Awinnell on Mon 16 Feb 2009 - 9:30

the dreaded question ! "Does my bum look big in this ?" two answers can be used
1 no dear it looks good on you ! (extra brownie points for that one),though she will say "you're just saying that "

2 Being carefull say something along the lines of , " it seems to have shrunk in the wash " followed by the suggestion she should replace it with a new one

and finally the truth which should never be used if you want to continue a peacefull life

3 "No dear its your ass that makes it look big ! "

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